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Media Understands Games Are Not to Blame!

Posted May 23, 2006 at 5:53PM EST by QJ Staff

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Lydia LovricFor quite some time now the mainstream media has been going along with people like Jack Thompson in blaming video games for all that is wrong with the world. Well, today I was pleasantly surprised to see that times have changed - at least here in Vancouver B.C. As I was flipping through the pages of The Province, I happened to notice the word "video games." It was an opinion piece by Lydia Lovric, entitled "If you're going to play video games be ready to take the consequences."

Alright, I'll be honest. When I saw that I expected the worst. However, the article was exactly the opposite of what I thought it would be. It wasn't a woman telling us that Grand Theft Auto was evil, it was a woman telling us that she too had been addicted to gaming and that the games are not causing people to screw up in life.

Lovric talks of how she started out with small-time games like Pac Man and Frogger and slowly evolved to playing Super Mario Bros. on her Nintendo. As she grew, RPGs began to take hold of her. Then her husband introduced her to Age of Empires II and Lovric was hooked.

"I played for hours at a time, despite finger cramps, backaches and bleary eyes. [...] But I would never blame the game-makers for creating such a wonderfully addictive game. That would just be... stupid. It's all too easy to point the finger. No one wants to accept personal responsibility any more. So we have lawsuits against the makers of Grand Theft Auto because we're a sue-happy society. A teenager steals a car, shoots police and somehow a game is to blame?"

You know what, she's right. If you're addicted to games, that's not the developer's fault. You have a problem. If you go out and kill a person after playing Manhunt, it's not the developer's fault. You have a problem. If you go out and think you're a counter-terrorist who knows how to work a gun because you played Counter-Strike, it's not the developer's fault. You have a problem. If you think that "1337" and "noob" are real words you can use in an English class... I think you see where I'm going with this.

Lovric also talks of the 13-year old Chinese boy who committed suicide after playing World of Warcraft for 36 hours straight. Why'd he jump to his death? He thought he could join the heroes in the game by doing so. His parents are now suing the company who distributes the game in China.

"Now I'm sorry that the boy is dead, but I fail to see how the distributor is to blame. Millions of people around the world play video and computer games; most realize that the "heroes" in these games are purely fictitious. Perhaps it helps the parents to try to assign blame to make sense of this tragedy. Or perhaps they're hoping a large financial settlement will ease their pain. I don't know. But if I was them, I'd be wondering how my son could play any game for 36 hours straight without me knowing or intervening."

Again, I agree. Parenting seems to be at the root of all "game-related" problems. What kind of parent allows their child to play Grand Theft Auto at the age of 10? An ignorant one. What type of parent allows their child to play 36 hours without rest? An oblivious one. If parents are not raising their children with care, or even raising them at all, there will be consequences. Look at just about any person involved in "game-related" incidents. They share one thing in common. A rocky upbringing. Sure they all played games, but guess what? It looks like they all read a book as well. As Lovric says, "If I put on a few extra pounds because I can't say no to Krispy Kremes, is it the doughnut-maker's fault? If I choose to drink and drive, can I blame the bartender?"

Lovric concludes that games are fun, but should be played in moderation - as should everything.

"As for my computer game addiction, after getting hooked on Call of Duty, I realized that I was wasting far too much time on gaming. Everything in moderation. Games can be fun, but my life was not enriched in any meaningful way. Now that I have a baby, the only games I have time for are peek-a-boo and pat-a-cake. And that's fine by me."



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# what a woman!!Guest 2006-05-23 19:01
this woman knows what she is talking about. if only everyone had her opinion. and plus knowing that she plays games kinda gives me a half hard on.

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# GeniousGuest 2006-05-23 19:10
The is the kind of oppinion the media SHOULD be displaying. Not this retarted "Oh, I can't raise my kids worth crap, and it's all the video games fault!"

We seriously need more people like this speaking out against stupidity, and people trying to pass off the blame to major companies. Like that lady who sued McDonalds because she spilled coffee in her lap. As many times as I hear about that case I still have absolutely no idea how she could have won that case unless she made a pact with the devil or something.

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# what a womanGuest 2006-05-23 19:12
He said half hard...uhhh hahah

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# Re: GeniousGuest 2006-05-23 19:12
The best one I heard was of a burgler who was on the roof of a house and fell in. He injured himself. He sued the homeowners and won. Wow.

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# mad propsDigitalFx 2006-05-23 19:13
i give her mad props son

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# agreeGuest 2006-05-23 19:20
id hit that

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# I'm thankfulGuest 2006-05-23 19:24
Thank god someone said this so many will have a change in heart about that accursed stereotype that some GTA games have imbedded in the minds of so many. I'm always glad when I see someone stand up for the underdog (in this case, videogames), and I hope to see more.

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# I Agree with ChocoboJoeGuest 2006-05-23 19:31
Im just glad someone told the truth for once.If anything at all gaming helps me vent any frustration.It doesnt make me wanna kill people.



P.S. Jack Thompson is a stupid retard

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# lolNinkul 2006-05-23 19:39
This is the first sense-making article about unhealthy gaming lol

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# From Liar LiarGuest 2006-05-23 19:56
from #4's comment, that was from Liar Liar, when Greta (the secretary), was quitting, she mentions that her friend had a burglar that fell on the counter, and cut his leg. Greta says "she was sued for 5 thousand dollars, now is that justice?". Then Fletcher (Jim Carrey), said "No!......I woulda gave him 10!" A very funny movie!

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# yupGuest 2006-05-23 19:56
i'd hit that too. while playin Lumines. 2 player. haha

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# I agreeGuest 2006-05-23 21:22
This woman knows what she is talking about.

That's all I need to say...

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# GTA savesGuest 2006-05-23 21:28
Have u heard the one about a burgular being scared off because he hears the cops on GTA shouting some random cop tounge (A kid was playing it). So he runs away and doesn't steel anything.

The Washington Shooter was encouraged by GTA

IN CONCLUSION.... GTA *****s up *****ed up people.

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# yayGuest 2006-05-23 21:44
get this woman a cookie!

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# +1 DittoIII AnubisX III 2006-05-23 22:04
FINALLY

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# "Playing 36 hours straight"Guest 2006-05-23 22:34
Wow (no, not World of Warcraft, just wow), thought 5 hours was much.

But hey, even if China has problem with person that play too much, US has problem with person that kill to too much.

Europe has person that...Well, doing nothing too much.

Africa has nothing, and thats not much, which mean we should help them first to have something to do when doing nothing too much.

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# SHE COULDNT BE ANY MORE RIGHT!RaiderX 2006-05-23 23:35
JUMP THIS UP AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE SEES IT!



I agree completely! You cant simply blame a game, just like you cant blame apple for you going deaf. (lower the volume retard....)



Everyone just loves to sue because trhey are lazy ass peopel and its an easy way to get money and they also cant accept that something si their own fault.



I play games instead of studying sometimes, I dont blame the games for making me fail tests, cuz they didnt make em fail.



Its like the old phrase, "The devil made me do it!"



Well Im glad some older people realize this and can get their word out there. Hopefully soon, everyone will realize that games are good at a good dosage.

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# IncredibleLordDragon 2006-05-24 00:01
Finaly some one in the media sees things from our point of view,and its a woman.Who'd a thunk it!LOL,Take that Hillary Clinton!

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# Nice...Guest 2006-05-24 00:33
Nice to see a well thought out, rational article on the affect of Video Games. If only people would realise that if a game drives someone to murder/suicide then must have been pretty f***ked up in the first place!

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# I,ll hit itGuest 2006-05-24 01:38
i,ll hit it 3 times

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# HAGuest 2006-05-24 01:48
Thank god, some resonable people. when im pissed off, i'll play a reALLY violent videogame and it will chill me out.



but those people who get mad and dont play em, have no way to release stress. i think thats why GTA:LCS came out for psp. so people can have PORTABLE stress relievers. or just to run over hookers and get your money back. either way, hilary is still a *****cake

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# hitting on Lydia LovricGuest 2006-05-24 02:05
id hit that, id hit that, id hit that, id hit that

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# Well thought outGuest 2006-05-24 02:06
Wow that was a excellent article, I am also a hardcore gamer but it is true that videos games give you little benefits except personal enjoyment with friends. Everything in moderation and I hope to see more of these articles in alot of newspapers here in Canada and maybe a news clip on CNN would finally bring light to how much parents are neglecting their children.

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# WOW! AOE2Guest 2006-05-24 03:50
This woman knows what games to play!

I remember AOE2 all those countless hours online!

AOE2 = teh R0zorxs

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# thanksGuest 2006-05-24 04:22
what is wrong with you guy's a person finally see's the light

and all you can think about is how she looks and how much

you want to dare I say "HIT THAT" you guy's need some help



anyway I think she's one of a few that have common sense

I mean if you get killed jumping out of your car trying to get on a wendy's truck thinking they have frosties on board are they to blame so to her and everyone else like her thanks

for having a brain

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# Mm.Guest 2006-05-24 04:55
I'd hit it. Twice if she asked nicely.

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# mehGuest 2006-05-24 05:17
Unfortunately this article is nothing but common sense. It's always nice to see someone who agrees with gamers on this topic but it's too bad that it has been said a million different times by a million different people. The only people that this article should suprise are the people that have never even attempted to reason anything out.



If you look in the right places you can find many articles that provide proof that video games are not to blame and even help kids. Try googling "surgeons who play video games". Also I guarantee that these articles will not change anything since if you show them to someone who thinks otherwise they will say something like: "well, that's just one person." *sigh*



O and I'd hit that.

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# Ok my opinionsGuest 2006-05-24 05:21
First I live in P.R. and in this country never there have been a sue filed because of videogames affecting children's mind so I don't know what is wrong with our dumb colonial power of USA , another thing is that the chinese kid din't suicide cause of a game , chinese people are too smart ( I have 2 chinese friends and one is in top 2 in math of this country of 9th graders , #1 is a goth girl , cool isn't it and the other chinese is in the top 10 but of those 10 like 3 are chinese and chinese form here less than 0.02% of our populatio ) , the chinese kid must have killed itlself because of depression , probably his parents making him study alot so he could be one of the smart chinese kids ( chinese people are very competitive on learning ). Anyways she's right , videogames are not to blame , only their guardians which buy them violent games without knowing if he is weaked-minded. I'm not cause I've been playing GTA games since I was 9 and M rated games since I was 8 and I'm one of the less violent kids , I only fight if someone starts he fight , never have I looked for a fight. The only company that should be being sued right now is Disney for the deaths at their rides , their sweatcamps , sublimimal message in movies , and other bad things they have done , what I say is true , I know a contratist that worked for Disney and he told me many bad things that Disney made in their history after Walt died ( when The new Sisney park was on construction ; magical kingdom ; the Disney all of you know which isn't the original park ).

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# Nothings our faultGuest 2006-05-24 05:34
It just shows how we are told that nothing is our fault, it's always someone elses. Apparently if i trip over on a pavement its not my fault i was retarded enough to not walk properly.

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# wowGuest 2006-05-24 06:22
i want to marry this woman.

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# i agree except for ...Guest 2006-05-24 06:36
""""If you think that "1337" and "noob" are real words you can use in an English class... I think you see where I'm going with this"""""



i'm going to have to disagree with that statement.. i have written many papers for my english composition classes on the language of leet of the internet subculture and the extension and evolution of the english language as an effect. they are real words.



remember the word "Quiz" was not a real word untill one man made it up, and in 24 hours made it a word. (however, there isn;t much supports for hat theory but you get mt meaning here.)

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# An Editorial != MediaGuest 2006-05-24 06:51
Just because one smart lady posts her take on videogames in an editorial doesn't mean the "Media understands games are not to blame".



The title should read more like, "One woman from one newspaper understands games are not to blame". Less catchy, but more true.

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# i want to ***** herGuest 2006-05-24 08:25
i want to ***** the lady in the picture and i wanna get her *****

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# VVowGuest 2006-05-24 09:05
VVow this is a good discryption of gaymes

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# Not rightDragon Claw 2006-05-24 09:14
She's not right at all. I'm going to go to Mcdonalds and eat until I get fat. Then I'll sue them for making me so fat.



Well I'm kidding, she has a point. Parents love pointing the finger when its their fault in the first place. Who really lets a 10 year old play GTA, Doom, and Halo. Well a neglectful one.

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# ...Guest 2006-05-24 09:27
WTF?

You guys really need to get laid.

Anyways, I whole-heartedly agree with most everything she was talking about.

Also, you can sue the bartender if you drive drunk off his beer. ^_^ (which just shows what a sue happy land we are in)

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# dummy!Guest 2006-05-24 09:39
ok, for number #28, shut up you stooopid head! Just because chinese people are smart it doesnt justify the fact that the kid commited suicide after rotting his brain after over exposing himself to E-heroin aka video games. crap, even I dont play that long! the longest i've played was about 13 or 14 hours and I was slightly delerious from lack of sleep! so yea, the china boy is a retard, his parents are retards and your a retard, #28, for trying to give him "immunity" becuz chinese people are smart.

oh, and I agree with #27, this ladys opinion doesnt mean squat. yea, its good to hear someone from the media is on our side, but it doesnt matter. in the end, its the game companys, and us gamers(to a certain extent) that lose.



shes IS kinda hot tho. would I hit that?? hells yea!

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# HAHAGuest 2006-05-24 09:55
Im sorry about all u people that said u would hit that, Im sure anyone would that dosent ever get laid. Get off the computer once in a while and look for some ?u$$y. I get it almost every day, and ill tell u what, i dont need to hit that because i hit better. NERDS!

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# ....Shatterdome 2006-05-24 09:59
Well this harkens back to the days when ppl commited suicide of d&d games.....as it's been said some people are just weak minded, people commit suicide after doing many different things...



Anyways, I did a presentation in university on why videogames should not be seen as bad, or at least no worse then movies. The response was very positive and I don't think we have anything to worry about after the baby boomers die off. This generation knows what it's about, it's just the old people who are closed minded to all new things and see video games as the spawn of satan, once they are gone, rock on....

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# š§‰‰k÷ƒÅÅ-ý²âGuest 2006-05-24 09:59
š§‰‰k÷ƒÅÅ-ý²â

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# .Guest 2006-05-24 11:28
#28 and #37 obviously don't know what they're talking about.

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# If you liked that column...Guest 2006-05-24 12:10
THE DEATH OF FEMINISM

Byline: Lydia Lovric



Feminists today are merely "womyn" who have forgotten what they are fighting for. And how to spell.



As a young female who has never felt oppressed in this supposedly male-dominated, patriarchal society, the dogma espoused by present-day feminism holds little appeal.



Unfortunately, many feminists today seem more intent on bashing men than in promoting equality of the sexes.



The scales have turned, so much so that it is now the male population that is often discriminated against.



One need only recall Ontario's unmourned Employment Equity Act - which not only sanctioned but demanded the discrimination of white males - to understand the imbalance.



Not long ago, Wilfrid Laurier University advertised for a teaching position making it quite clear that men need not apply. They were not alone in this regard. Many employers actively sought out females in recent years to fill positions, regardless of whether there may have been men who were better qualified. Imagine the frenzy that would result if an employer declared that only male applicants would be considered for a job.



But many feminists refuse to see the inherent problems that stem from this kind of militant feminism.



My sister's friend recently recounted her experience of surviving a course in "Women's Study" while at university.



After listening to her professor lecture on and on about the persecution of women in society today, this young female raised her hand to make a point. When she told her professor she had never felt oppressed, the teacher snidely replied, "Well, isn't that nice for you."



It's ironic that it's often feminists who so readily discount the opinions of other women simply because the views are in conflict with feminist ideology.



Another example: The words "Violence against women is wrong" were scrawled in chalk across my university campus a few months ago. Why not simply, "Violence is wrong"?



As I proceeded to rub off part of the message (namely, the words "against women") I received irksome glares from a number of female students who witnessed my renegade act.



The most unfortunate setback for women that can be attributed to feminism is that of the devalued stay-at-home mom.



FROWNING ON MOTHERHOOD



Rather than praising mothers who choose to make raising children their top priority, feminists have historically frowned upon them. In fact, females who forgo careers for the sake of raising kids should be applauded for their efforts and for the valuable contribution they make to society.



It's a contribution well-known feminist guru Germaine Greer now wishes she had made. As someone who once denounced motherhood as oppressive, Greer now longs for the child she never had.



Despite spending thousands of dollars on fertility treatments, Greer has been unable to conceive. She waited too long.



Sadly, she had bought into the notion that childbearing was merely a tool used by men to enslave their women.



Now, her tune has changed. "I still have pregnancy dreams, waiting with vast joy and confidence for something that will never happen," confessed Greer in a recent interview.



The importance of motherhood is also stressed in one of the songs by Canadian singer, Melanie Doane. It's a sentiment echoed by many young women today.



The song is called Happy Homemaker. In it, she sings, "Maybe I'd be happy to let it all go/Dedicate my life to making jelly moulds/Learn to cook and learn to sew/I'm a Happy Homemaker." Doane concludes, "Barefoot and pregnant/Never looked so good."



Although early feminism served a useful and vital purpose for which I am extremely grateful, there seems little similarity between the original brand of feminism and its present-day counterpart.



Make no mistake, I am a fervent supporter of equality. However, I am convinced modern feminists are interested in something other than equality. Many are simply out for revenge. This is precisely the reason I refuse to embrace feminism and am happy to declare that feminism is d

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# Lol @ #38DiabloTerrorGF 2006-05-24 12:14
so says the guy posting in a blog for video games.

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# Pat-a-cakeGuest 2006-05-24 15:44
omg thats such an addicting game, i use to play it for hours on end with my mom when i was 2!

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# umm nahGuest 2006-05-24 15:48
i wouldn't hit it, but i would finger bang it.

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# Did you know..Guest 2006-05-24 15:50
That I too am from VANCOUVER

same place as the lady who wrote that editorial

oooooo

Anyways I think video games are great. I've noticed at my school that every kid who plays video games for long periods of time (games like warcraft) seems to be pretty damn smart. I dunno but its just what I've noticed.

Good article. Nothing stupid. Nothing special either though just the truth.

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# oopsGuest 2006-05-24 16:06
last word blurred out there was F A G S



see ya

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# first postGuest 2006-05-24 16:15
first post

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# ohh bebeGuest 2006-05-24 16:44
I'd hit it where the sun doesn't shine. heh heh heh

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# Im from Mexico...RommelTJ 2006-05-24 16:53
...and there has been no video game related games here.



I just think its so simple. Suicide gets popular. Its popular in Japan(actually, its popular in Asia in general), and its getting popular in the USA.



People, stop following stupid trends.

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# first postGuest 2006-05-24 18:22
first post

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# to #s...Guest 2006-05-24 19:27
to #s 6,11,20,22,26, and 50 I GOTS TA TAG IT HIT IT BANG IT first!!!then you all can get sloppy seconds! To #33 you need to get out more!And to #38 u must be a closet case !and a nerd stands for Never. Eat'n.Rotten.Dames(n.e.r.d.)!!!!!!!!!!!!!s o there ya have it !! i'd definatelly hit that!

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# chicks WTF No.38Guest 2006-05-24 21:05
No.38.........

wat can I say

these r the rules

1) You can navigate through a computer

or

2) u can navigate through a woman

make ur choice

u cant have tham both

(oh ***** ur GF told u about this site, sorry, i shoudn't insult her and her million red dotted friends on her face)

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# I started playing at 3Guest 2006-05-25 00:35
I started playing when I was 3, the game was bio menace, many of you may recall this game (should be ported to the PSP) anyway my parents never stoped me from playing for too long or playing games that were not for my age, can't remember really how old I was but I played diablo when I was 8 or 9 and the game was rated for 15+ age, never ever influenced me into doing anything in real life, I have to admit it might have to do with my IQ it is very above average for my age and maybe that's just it, ppl are stupid, most of them, seriously someone who plays a game killing ppl then he goes on the street to do the same thing, he's stupid, even if I got the urge of doing so I would always believe it would be best to just keep killing in the game and not in real life jeez ppl are stupid :( .

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# @ 53 and 54Guest 2006-05-25 06:31
I dont care what u think nerd means. To me it means computer geek that sits at home all day playing halo and looking at porn wishing they could hit somebody. To me thats sad. By the way, I navigate through both cpu and female all the time, so i guess i can have both, just as long if im not on the computer for hours upon hours. If any of u nerds, not "never", want to ever get laid, i suggest find a girl as much as a nerd as u are or lay off the computer for about an hour or 12. Gotta go, time to get laid.

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# To 58Guest 2006-05-25 07:49
they're just useless ponds that have no social life outside the internet. say what u ppl want but you guys are LOSERS. i love coming to this site and pissing off the little 14 year olds......"yeah, yeah..i'd hit that where the sun don't shine, yeah yeah" and "i don't care about the p*ssy, i just want qj to recognize me".



F*cking Losers!

















Say hello to my little friend.



i'll kill cianide, i'll kill mulumense, i'll kill mysticales, i'll kill qj, i'll kill all you useless motherf*ckers. bring it on. see me when you see me motherf*cker. we all die one day, some sooner than others.



I'm goin to hell, who's comin wit me?



gotta check myself into rehab, gotta get away from theses *****s. BYATCH!!!!!!

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# PLEASE POST VIDEO GAME ARTICLEGuest 2006-05-25 10:27
Can someone please post the actual text of this article or point me to a link - (please email me at kboryskavich@ai m.com).

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# Hah Stupid HoebagGuest 2006-05-30 15:45
Ok theres alot of people that would want to "hit that". But i mean come the ***** on, look at how shes posed, and her facial expression. Shes *****in ridiculous.



This stupid *****bag thinks shes the ***** because shes female (look at that photo, thats ridiculous). Thats right, take care of your damn baby you stupid pregnant hoe. You dont deserve games.

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